The Man in the Morning

We awoke the following morning, half-expecting that uncomfortable, 'wow, we had sex last night' feeling.  But it was actually kind of average.  He was a nice guy and I didn't regret spending the evening with him.  I noticed something, though.  He walked more upright, had a strong smile instead of a goofy grin, a relaxed…

You’re a Good Boy! Yes you are!

I arrived early, way before it was time for my bar back to load the tub.  I made a few minor adjustments: my tub position, cash register position, my bottle opener position - I was so ready.  When the bar back brought out his beer cases, I brought out my notepad and pen. What are…

Somebody Pin Me...!

Yep.  I'm pinning stuff.  But it's uber interesting stuff - featured clubs, cities and, yes, even featured entertainers from the past and the present.  Learn where she got those shoes and how you can get them for an even better price.  Plus, industry news like who slapped who in the parking lot of what club in what city and which states require permits.  I've also included other 'family' member information: porn stars (hey, they're cool peeps!), burlesque performers (you gotta know where you came from!) and cool scenes from really cool strip-inspired movies, books and blogs.  Oh, and gay stuff, too.  I'm still gay on Pinterest.  I'm branching out...one limb at a time.  Join me, will ya?

It Takes a Village…

It's amazing how this industry affects so many people in opposing ways. I agree with a lot of the issues presented here and much respect to the author for her brutal honesty. However, I'm glad that I have been able to pull some positives out of my experiences, while learning from the negative. This entry…

Sink or Swim

I didn't stop at The Rainbow Room.  I loved bartending: still do.  I wanted more of it.  I guess now is a good time to mention that I'm a bit gluttonous once I find something I really enjoy.  It's like an incessant need to gorge on as much of it as I possibly can.  A…

Tough Break

Getting back to Tampa was a relief - I'd never been happier to be back in familiar territory.  No worries about getting back and forth to work, where to eat, permits or a runty little man smoking weed in my bathroom.  Of course, it was a bit mundane at first: the girls at work weren't…

Ritchie Kotzen

A very sexy video...it's classy and titillating all at the same time. Thanks to The Stripper blog for sharing!

Spearmint Rhino Competition 2012

In The Weeds

Work, work, work...that's all we did between the two clubs.  We were finally making some real money so it was worth the sore muscles, back aches and cramped feet.  What wasn't worth it was my friend and her boyfriend arguing at any given moment.  I was sick of it.  I finally had the last straw…

Know Your Market

With the growing obsession with exotic dancing and it being a viable form of income - slow, but it's getting there - toymakers have really stepped outside of the box.  What were they thinking?  That's easy.  Money.  One would be hard-pressed to NOT find a pole in one out of every three friends' basements.  Go…